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The Magic of Attraction

by Judy Irving


  1. Tell the Truth
    This means more than not lying. There is a level of telling the truth that will truly set you free and attract others to you. And, there is a way to tell the truth from a place of love vs. power or fear.
  2. Be Yourself
    Be authentic. Accept where you are. We are where we are because of the choices we have made. Accepting this empowers us to choose again. By being authentic, you may fail to attract some people but you will still influence them.
  3. Stay in the Present
    If you stay in the present, you can move with the flow. Pay attention to what is happening to and around you RIGHT NOW. Attraction happens in the moment, not in the problems of the past or the anticipation of the future. Gotta start here where attraction can find you.
  4. Eliminate the loss of energy.
    You can have it all -if you are open to the possibilities. But first you must plug the holes by extending boundaries, raising standards, resolving past issues, healing. Attraction won't find you until you're ready. GET READY.
  5. Win/Win
    The Higher Alternative. Most of us were raised to believe that if we win , the world loses or if the world wins, we lose. This is NOT true. Look for the way that is a win for all parties concerned. If you can't find one - walk away from the deal.
  6. Giving is Receiving
    The joy is in the giving, its true! We all have something to give, something to add. Add it. If you don't have enough to add, learn a new skill. When you add "you" and your gifts to other people's lives. YOU become more attractive!
  7. Be Selfish
    Take extremely good care of yourself. Get your needs met first. If you need something, usually it will run away or escape you. Build reserves in areas of money, love, space, opportunities, ideas, friends, you'll become a strong magnet for what you want--because you won't need it.
  8. Increase Your Awareness
    Attraction is a subtle phenomenon. You won't feel it or get it until you've increased your awareness of yourself, those around you, how you think, your life assumptions...
  9. Take Responsibility
    We attract what we are ready for. Get ready for the best - by doing the work! The responsibility for making one's self and one's organization attractive is NOT effortless, but the result is truly incredible!
  10. Shift From Doing to Being
    Notice who you are Being as you go about doing what it is you do. Where are you "coming from" - love or fear? How will you know - by the result.

Judy Irving is a Personal & Business Coach who combines spiritual concepts and insight with practical skills to assist others in taking their life or business to the next level. She is the founder of MOVING ON... a coaching and development company in Las Vegas. Judy is available for professional coaching on any of the above principles and can be reached at 702-240-1866 or email